How to Cope with COVID-19 and Find Merriment This Holiday Season

Thrive • Nov 17, 2020

With family events, work celebrations, traveling, and all sorts of commotion, our social calendars can fill up quickly during the holidays. But unfortunately, the 2020 holiday season may look very different than holidays in the past. COVID-19 has put a barrier between us and our loved ones. There most likely won’t be large holiday gatherings, long-distance travel, or work celebrations.

We are all getting through this pandemic day by day, and the holiday season is yet another formidal hurdle to cross. Because many events that we usually look forward to have been canceled, our emotional and mental health may suffer. But there are still ways to connect with each other this season, and make the most of the circumstances we’ve been given. Below are some ways to celebrate safely this holiday season.

Seven Ways to Celebrate Joyfully This Holiday Season

  1. Deliver homemade treats to your friends and family. Leave holiday cookies, treats, or meals on your loved ones’ front door steps. Your goodies will not only be a sweet surprise, but a great way for everyone to stay safe!

  2. Write with gratitude. Sit down, reflect, and write down what you are grateful for. Gratitude journaling is a great exercise to connect with yourself.

  3. Host a small socially distanced get together outside. Guests can gather in your backyard or a park. Everyone can pack a picnic and enjoy each other’s company from a safe distance.

  4. Plan an ugly holiday sweater Zoom party. Attendees can wear their ugliest festive sweaters and perform a catwalk via Zoom.

  5. Have a no contact secret Santa gift exchange. Instead of meeting in person, leave secret Santa gifts on doorsteps. This will add a little extra mystery!

  6. If you can, give a little extra this season. Giving takes us out of our struggles and allows us to turn our focus on doing good for others. If you’re saving money on traveling, hosting holiday parties, or ski trips this year, maybe you’re able to splurge a little extra on your loved ones. Or, you might even consider making a charitable donation to those suffering from the economic stress of the pandemic.

  7. Cut down a Christmas tree. Instead of going to a busy Christmans tree lot, head to the wide open space and fresh air of the forest. Search for the perfect Christmas tree with your family or your quarantine pod. Just remember to get a permit before your outing!

With all the added stress of the pandemic, it’s understandable if you’re not feeling like your most festive self this holiday season. The dramatic change to the holiday season can increase feelings of fear, anxiety, stress, isolation and depression. In order to cope with your stress in a healthy way, check-in with yourself. How are you feeling emotionally? What is on your mind? How are your emotions affecting you? Acknowledge your feelings and talk about them with someone you trust. Talking about your emotions can be awkward and uncomfortable, but bottling them up is extremely unhealthy. As you process your emotional state, you will notice that your mood improves.

’Tis the Season for Healing!

The holiday season is a happy, but stressful time. If your mental-emotional state is disrupting your life, it’s okay to lean on others for support and seek professional help. Therapy can help you process your emotions and find joy. Thrive’s team of therapists treats anxiety, depression, life-changes, grief, and more. We are passionate about helping others be their best selves in the world.

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Spring Cleaning Benefits for Mental Health Spring is a time of new beginnings, change, and transitions, including in our homes. With the warmer weather kicking motivation into high gear, Spring can be a prime time to do a deep clean. Not only is a clean space aesthetically pleasing to the eyes, but it can also help to improve your mental health. Learn about how tidying up your space can also tidy up your thoughts below along with tips for cleaning when you’re struggling with your mental health. 4 Reasons Why Cleaning is Beneficial to Mental health 1.Decreased Stress Not only does an uncluttered space provide a sense of calm, but the physical act of cleaning can release feel-good endorphins, reducing feelings of stress and anxiety. As you cross tasks off your checklist, your body also releases Dopamine. Also known as the “happy hormone”, Dopamine provides a sense of accomplishment and pride that can promote motivation in other areas of our lives. 2. Improved Focus Studies have shown that an uncluttered space can also lead to an uncluttered mind. Your focus can be drawn away from important tasks by a chaotic, messy space. Research has also shown a connection between procrastination and clutter, as an unwillingness to tackle larger chores like cleaning can translate over into various areas of our lives. By keeping your space tidy, it can inspire you to stay on top of other major tasks like work and school assignments. 3. Regulated Emotions According to this 2015 study , cleaning can function as a practice in mindfulness, providing an increased sense of calm and inspiration. Slowing down while cleaning gives you room to relax and free your mind of burdens, stressors, and irritants that can affect your mental health. Cleaning can even be considered a practice of self-care as the action helps you to connect with yourself and the outcome allows you to better enjoy your own space. 4. Sense of Order and Control When experiencing mental health struggles, people may feel a lack of control over their lives and emotions. Cleaning even small areas of the home can provide an increased sense of order and control as you cross tasks off your to-do list. Through realizing your own power by simply completing minor tasks like cleaning, it can reaffirm your ability to do more. 10 Tips for Cleaning When Struggling with Mental Health Mental health struggles and disorders commonly create barriers to one’s ability to clean and properly practice personal hygiene. Although these behaviors are normal side effects of mental health disorders, we want to work to aid our clients in cleaning to the best of their ability even in difficult times. Below, Thrive Wellness occupational therapist Meadow Deason shares some helpful tips she gives to clients when they struggle with cleaning due to mental health conditions: 1.Ask For Help Having support to clean can make a huge difference. Do the cleaning with the person helping you and have them hold you accountable. 2. Don't Wait for Motivation Motivation might not come before action, but it can build as you begin to see the results of your efforts. 3. Start Small Start with one area or one task and go from there. For example, concentrate on your bedroom first and then move on to the living room and bathroom. 4. Do Something Daily Even if you do only one small cleaning task a day, doing that one task creates momentum and prevents small tasks from building up and becoming overwhelming. 5. Use Sensory Modulation Change your environment by playing music, adjusting the lighting, or using aromatherapy. This can help to put you in a new headspace for cleaning. 6. Start with "High Impact" Tasks Start with more intensive or all-over cleaning tasks such as picking up clutter or doing the dishes. The visual "noise" of some tasks makes a large impact on the entire space, building motivation to continue cleaning. 7. Make a To-Do List Write a detailed to-do list of tasks and cross them off as you go. Physically marking down what you’ve accomplished can promote increased motivation. 8. Reward Yourself Set up a reward system where you reward yourself with a favorite activity or item when you complete a task as an incentive to clean. 9. Use the Rocket Method Don't think about it, just choose a task, countdown from five or ten and then start. This can help you to avoid potential anxiety and dread that can prevent you from cleaning. 10. Gamify Tasks Make up a game for your tasks or time yourself to promote increased engagement in cleaning. Your ability to complete tasks can be affected by a multitude of different factors and conditions including OCD , anxiety, depression , ADHD , and more. If you are struggling with motivation due to your mental health, help is here at Thrive Wellness.
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